what would you do in my case?

what would you do in my case?my girlfreind and i have been goin gout for like a month and a half...and i love her a lot!!! i will die for her anytime...but anyways, she had a boyfreind before and she dated him for 7 months,and now that they broke up their like bestfreinds. i try to not have a problem with him, but he keeps talking to her a lot, he calls her a lot...and she does the same...then, one day all of the suddenly they kissed,( it was just a peck), i wasn't there but, she felt really bad and upset, because she didnt know why it happend,so i forgived her for that,but keeps she telling me that shes over him and that she has no feelings for him and that i have shown her more love in 2 weeks then he did in 7 months,so i know she loves me,.....but recently she sent him a message in myspace saying how she's really sorry fpr the things she did to him, and how she only wanted to make him happy..and i was on the phone with her when she was writting this.,i know she loves me, but i just have something bodering me.

igotdahookup29
if your girlfriend is talking to her ex-boyfriend , ITS TIME TO GO

a man don't stay in a relationship when his girlfriend is talking to her ex-boyfriend. TIME 2 GO

fly guy
Unfortunately for you, she still loves him. You can only be second best to his memory and it is only time before she goes back. Let her go. The both of you will be better off that way.

miranti2003
I know where you are comming from bud...

I was in the same situation as you at one time. I hate to say it but it did not end very well. However, I will tell you some things that you should seriously take into consideration.

She is obviously has some strong emotional attachments to her ex boyfriend that she can not part with. If she is still keeping contact with him, there are some unresolved issues that they feel they need to talk about.

In my experience, I brought up the point that I did not like the fact that she was spliting her time between me and someone that she had broken up with. I was jealous. I couldn't stand it. I tried like hell to show her that I was the only man in her life, but she used my love for her against me. She would turn to her ex for advise and try to find out what he would do. I later found out that she had blown me off on several occasions to spend time with him behind my back. They wouldn't touch or kiss, but I couldn't help but feel like a third wheel in my own relationship with her.

If she has gone behind your back and did what she did, maybe they are not really broken up. Talk to her one on one and find out the truth. Ask her about her feelings for him. I know what she told you, but is that how she honestly feels. If she can not part ways with him maybe she is not the right one for you.

Once again... I understand that you love this girl and you want to be her number one. But if she needs some time and space to figure things out, then you should give it to her. Tell her that you can not stand by and watch them carry on as if they never parted. Trust is key in a relationship, and right now, it is a very thin line between you two. If she loves you back she will take the right steps to make it work between you two, and put her past behind her.

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