girls problems and anxiety!?ok here's the deal, Im 16, a junior in High school and I think I got a real problem. I like girls and all but Im always too nervous to bring up the nerve to talk to them in that way. I mean im a sociable guy mainly around guys. It's kinda weird because most girls seem to find me very attractive, (hot whatever, they say i have pretty eyes) not to sound bigheaded or anything because im really not cocky at all. I have never really gone out with a girl before so Im im just so confused. Well this hot girl on my bus wanted to go out with me even though she didn't know me ( but she been checkin me out all year) me at all so im like Ok. I don't really know what i got myself into because now im more nervous then exicited. I feel like ill be too boring to interest her like other guys with girl experience can . the next day after she asked me out I went up to her at her locker and said some stuff like "Hey, how ur doing, what Kinda stuff u like to do, where u live" I think that was lame but she told me anyways. when I was around her i was real nervous cause i wanted to hold her but didn't want to do anything awkward that would turn her off. So I walked her to our bus and when we got on I was really nervous cause I knew everybody was going to talk about this. Eventually she sat in my seat and started talking to me and we were flirting but it was awkward cause i didn't know if she was fellin it and I was nervous cause everyone was looking at me and and talking about it. Im really nervous because i know i don't have any "game" as they call it so I think that will definitely turn her away from me. It is so nervewracking on that bus with her on it cause everyones just looking at me and her at joking I guess. Plus, I just met this girl and were going out. So what do I do?!! I think my nervousness will make her eventually dump me cause she's not nervous. Im not like the other guys at school who have girlfriends they flirt with in the halls. I don't want to bore her cause i think im too kind and polite to her. And I dont know how ill fare at school with my first gf, cause she'll talk to her friends and i think one of her friends is cute. and if she tells them that im boring and uninteresting that would suck really bad, id probably get clowned and decrease my already low self esteem toward girls. I don't have low self esteem around guys cause I guess i can relate to them. It would hurt to have some of those girls that don't know me but im attracted to turn away cause im lame or uniteresting. I don't what to do to please her. I mean I dont even know what to say to my first gf. I guess she'll probably leave me or cheat on me anyways and i'll never keep a girl. And everyone will clown me even the other girls im attracted to cause none of those girls know me and I act uniterested around them when it's the opposite. Please help ME Please!!!! advice!!!!!! I do wanna keep this girl!!!!! When im single im depressed cause i look at hot girls that I can't have. Now that i just got a gf how do I maintain!!! And please help me with everything I said above!! I don't even know why im goin gout with a girl im nervous around. Everyone thinks im ladies man cause im laidback or whatever but I got no exp. in these things and Im just burdened with everything!! !!! what do I do!! how can i keep girls when im uncomfotable around them!! Help!! I'll be seeing her next week on my bus and i feel like i should sit in the back to avoid it all. Im kinda down about it. And im definely a virgin. HOw do i be with a girl if im nervous around im constantly think of things to say. I feel so pathetic as a guy
Thank you all for your comments they really helped me and I appreciate it alot!! And i guess im already goin out with this girl tho so idk
LifelessDolly
Relax, you make life so hard...quit being hard on yourself and realize there's nothing wrong with being inexperienced, dorky, nervouse....youre still young, you have a lot to learn, don't worry if you feel lost right now. Things will get better. You will have plenty of chances to be with a girl. Don't rush it.
Dr Love
calm down. this girl asked you out so you have qualities she admires. we're all nervous when we meet someone new- especially someone we're attracted to. just go with the flow. you seem to be too bothered that others are looking at you. forget them, they're nosey and jealous.
you sound very sweet, just be yourself, as we can see if someone's trying to be something they're not.
no-one is any better than anyone else, she has to go to the bathroom
and do what comes naturally. hope I've helped
♥ Katrina ♥
I know it is nerve wracking, but think of the positives that the first move could lead to versus the negatives. And most girls appreciate guys that make the first move.
Ask her out! Just say like "Hey! I've seen you around a lot, and I was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime?" If she says no, then just play it off by saying "Oh, okay. I was just wondering if some people wanted to go out to the movies with me. No big deal." Smile and walk off.
If she says yes, then great! Think of the positives outweighing the negatives. And really the only way to know for sure is by straight asking out. Good luck and I'm sure you'll do fine! =]
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