So tired of my husband acting like a spoiled child....?

So tired of my husband acting like a spoiled child....?Look,this man is really getting on my last nerve and I need counseling myself to deal with him and his babish ways! He has gotten a puppy,she has been terrible to house train,she will be a large dog once she gets older,my daughter also has a puppy,the same breed,he is housetrained,got him from a different person,anyway,I told them both I wanted these dogs out of the house,the house we built with our own hands,our own money,yadda,yadda..I don't want our new home smelling like dog s***,would you? After you have worked so hard on for two years! So my daughter put her puppy out but my husband says..I live here to,this is my house too,and she stays in,but yet he gets angry for having to clean up her mess and he tries to blame the mess on our daughters dog,knowing it isnt her dogs mess.Not to mention that he is lazy,doesn't get up to help me clean unless he sees I am angry,he wasn't raised in a dirty house,I was,I told them all,kids included that we would not live in a filthy house,but no-one but myself cares how the house looks,I also work full time too like him,and we just found out he has Gout,where he can't have red meat,he also can't have pork due to another health issue he has,but now he says we all cant have it becasue he can't..I should have never married this man,he loves me,I love him,but I am so sick of him being a big a** baby about everything..any advice?

Jery E
he has the gout? so he's an overweight drunk in addition to being a lazy piece of shlt whiner? wow you picked a winner didn't you?

Ms. GTO
Next time he starts complaining about cleaning up dogshit, I'd smile sweetly and hand him the pooper scooper. If he wants a dog and refuses to help housetrain it, then he should damn well clean up after it.

Luna
With a man like this you need to be stern and direct. You need to tell him that you are not the one who runs the house, we both do. You need to tell him that you are sick and tired of his babyish, immature ways and that he needs to grow up and respect you because that's the only way that this marriage is going to survive. Tell him that, YOU BOUGHT the dog so YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE for it not me. Say i never wanted this dog in the house and if you want it, you need to take care of it yourself, don't think that i'll pitch in because i firmly said i did not want this animal. Also tell him that you are on the very brink of leaving him because you can't take it anymore. Also remind him that you are seeing a therapist because this might flag to him that you are struggling way to much and enough that you need to see a professional! Marriage is a teamwork, not a one person work!
Do not yell or scream at him because this will make him real angry, cornered and most likely he won't listen to a thing that you just told him~ so sit down with him, look directly in his eyes and calmly but firmly tell him your concerns and problems. Remember, you are a mother first as well as a wife but you should try to work your marriage out for your child. This talk might be a chance for both persons to get some frustrated and bottled up feelings.
I hope this helped hun~
Be strong. You're a woman, show him what you're made of.

xoxo
Luna

Kels_Bells
My gosh. I thought my husband was a bit of a sloth but this is stupid. As for the meat thing, women need iron and why should you and your daughters health suffer for this spoilt brat of a man! Put your foot down on that one. Lean red meat is an important part of your diet. As for the dogs, I would not want dogs in my house either. Unfortunately you didn't get this one ironed out before the jerk got the puppy so I don't know where you can go from here. Perhaps say you are willing to compromise on the dog being inside if he pays to have the carpets cleaned every six months as you are not willing to live in a kennel! If he is that lazy, when n he realises he has to move the furniture around every six months for the carpets to be cleaned the idea of outside dogs will be far more appealing.

Jane Marple
I have a dog and my house doesn't smell like dog sh*t. You're over reacting. You sound like a controlling person, you just don't want him to have this dog.

Not having around the food he can't have is only being supportive. Eat beef and pork when he's not there, that's all.

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