Should I give up or go casual and enjoy what I can get? ?We met almost 2 yrs ago. I had just gout out of a long term relationship. We went out a few times and I grew very interested. It turned out that I got a huge crush on him and he was all I could think about and he knew it. I kept letting him know that I wanted to be his. A few months later he let me know that he was getting into a relationship with someone he had known for a while. We stopped communicating all together. Everyone knew they where dating. They dated for quite sometime while I tried to forget about him by repairing things with my X . That did not work, I could not forget him. I sent him a text telling him happy B-day despite the fact we had not spoken in months. At this point we had known each other for about a yr & 1/2. He began to keep in touch with me and I broke up with my current at the time. When he and the girl he was seeing broke things off he got in touch with me and told me how sorry he was for how things turned out with him and I. With in a week of the breakup he found out and asked me over for dinner. We had a nice time and a sweet make out session. I didn't talk to him for 2 wks after that and began to keep things short with him scared he was up to no good. Although I am leavening out details here it should be noted that him and I seem to have grown pretty close despite the time that has passed. We are both respectful of each other and think a lot of each other. He has told me that he thinks a lot of me and complimented me on many qualities. He also knew that I would not sleep with him early on. Any how I have now known him going on 2 yrs and care about him A Lot and it's not a crush. I was going to avoid him but as always he got to me and we ended up seeing each other. Except this time we ended up sleeping together and I stayed the night with him and the whole night was sweet. We even slept close the whole night. The next morn I left and we went on about our days. I did not expect to hear from him and ended up getting messages from him 2 days in a row following the night after. I guess I made the mistake of showing I cared a little too much either that or he is busy. Any how do you think this is going to be a causal relationship, if so is that good or bad, I really like him and want to be in a relationship with this guy and I don't mind giving it time but I am not trying to get taken advantage of here? Should I just act as if it's not bothering me if we don't talk? Also he is older and a little more settled where I am trying to finish college and still have a lot to complete. where is this going and should I just give up on something serious or continue to be patient and not have sex any more and make my self less available, or is a casual relationship ok at this point?
I really need some good advice here!
Candice™
Hi I guess u have to ask do I want to be treated like a doormat or do I want a for fulling relationship,I know which I would choose I hate being taken for granted Ciao ♥
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