Can anybody help me?

Can anybody help me?Hi.I'm gay,my parents don't know that.I live with them and it is so difficult.I have written to you and thanks about the answers.But now I am really very tired,really...........I can not continue to live with living this lie.It is so complicated.............what can I do?Last answers somebody said that i have to gout with gay friends etc.but it is really impossible cause I live with my parents,I am 18 years old.I study and years ago I have tried to think about girls,I've tried to change my mind about my sexual orientation but nothing....do not know what to do......I can not continue to think abouthat.....when I am in school my friends talk about girls and everything but I know i am different and don't feel anything for girls......You've told me that if i am walking like a girl i can be sure that everybody know that but I am different.I do not seem le a girl.I am a boy that has just feelings and is atracted by men.What can I do?I feel so alone,so tired,so sad....nobody can imagine..

lilbabyphat0408
you have to tell SOMEONE so you can get this burden off your shoulders. My parents dont know im gay but some of my friends know and it was okay...you have to do this because it might not end the way you want if someone else finds out and puts you on blast...good luck.. and no that you arent alone...even though you may think you are :D

cat
Well, i know its hard but you have to tell your parents or a friend or someone. If they cant accept the fact, then their not worth it. No matter how much it hurts your goin to meet people that are against gays and bis and yeah...
Well good luck!!
Remember don't change who you are just so your family will accept you!!

Cowboy Rance
First off you're not alone. Second, not all gay men act or walk like girls. I know some guys you would never know were gay.
Here are some websites:
www.thegyc.com
www.gaywired.com
www.advocate.com
gayteens.about.com
Hope these help with your struggle. You are a Normal Human Being and don't let anyone tell you different.
God made you the way you are and God doesn't make Mistakes!!!!!

Dinah
I'm a member of Straight But Not Narrow. Will offer my best ideas. I'm assuming, being 18, you're a high school senior, graduating this summer, only a few months to go before you can leave your parents for college or a job. Hang in, if you know they won't accept your situation, til then. Then with your own place, this long-fought, tiring lonesomeness will be over.

The only alternative I see is asking a mentor you admire to set up a four-way discussion on your behalf.

Buffyfreak32
hey honey, apparently 1 in 10 people are gay, and i am one of them. if you think your parents are kind and loving people they will not judge you because you are their son, they raised you and so your sexuality should not effect how they see you. come out to them if you want, it's up to you.

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