Please take ur time to read it all! I REALLY need ur help!?Hey! first of all I have to tell that Im 18 and I have never had a boyfriend (which means I have never been kissed), and I also got to say that in general people dont believe me and find that really weird, and might think I have a problem or smth, cuz they say Im really pretty and all, so how could noone ever ask me to go out with them! Of course they did but I just never liked someone that much and I dont know, I was always looking for smth serious so Im waiting for the right one =). Yeah I know might sound kinda stupid, but Im kinda complicated anywayss! Well whatever! There's this guy I met 2 years ago in my summer holiday. It was the first and only time I saw him "live" and we didnt really had time to talk, so he just asked me for my email address. He lives in another country than mine so we've been talkin online since two years now , just seeing each other on web cam sometimes (while these 2 years, there were times when we didnt talked for months, cuz often we used to block each other on msn,lol,cuz we argued a lot because we're really different, but finally always end up reconciling)! Last time we Re Started talking on msn was like 5 months ago, and this time was kinda different cuz we were talking like more than friends! In the beginning we were always joking about "being more than friends" but it kinda started to become serious cuz we started to talk ALL THE TIME and really getin to know each other and I could see that he really likes me ( He said that this summer we MUST see each other and see how things go cuz he really wants to gout with me and blla blla...). The problem IS thatt this guy is NOT AT ALL my type of guy, he's totally the opposite of me (like he had a lot of girlfriends) and there's a lot of things that I really really cant stand on him! But i really like him! Gohhhh I know... I said I was complicated :-S! Now in two weeks Im going to his country for my summer holiday and Im supposed to see him but I dont really know if I should! Im afraid to fall in love! I dont wanna fall i love with him, cuz I know that is not the 'right one' ! and I know that if I see him, we'll go out and it's summer, it's romantic, we'll probably kiss, and im afraid to fall in love, since I have never really go out with someone and if he's gonna be the first one... I dont know! I really need ur opinion or advice! I really wanna spend my holidays with this guy but I dont know if in real is gonna be the same as talking on msn and seeing each other on a web cam! I mean, we're so different and he's not the guy I would probably fall for! Now I dont know what to do! He's convinced that we're gonna see each other and spend time together and get to know each other more, he tells me that he's waiting for me and he's impatient to see me and blla blla! I was convinced too, before I started to think this way! (but i know that he really cares about me, cuz he showed me, i noticed a big change, cuz when we first started to talk two years ago, he was so different, like arrogant and very proud, and that's a part for why we were arguing all the time! but this time I could see that he has changed, but he's also older now so kinda makes sense!
Ok now I really need ur opinion, should I see him and go out with him and have fun and enjoy my summer holiday and dont think about the future? Anyways I cant fall in love with someone like him, cuz he has almost nth from the things I look for in a guy, right? even If I kiss him (and it's my ever first kiss) doesnt mean Im gonna fall in love right? I meanI like him, but it's just a crush, and is been such a long time since Im messing my head with him, i should just go and see him and see what's happen right?
Thnx a lottt for taking ur time to read it all and to answer me, of course!
victor
i think that you should give him a chance... alot of people deserve a chance because you and him are probably already flirtin... so i would say give him a chance
Izabella
You can go just if he asks you out just say your not sure yet cause of the distance since he lives in a different country. Plus talking online and talking in person is totally different. Yeah you talked but you should hang out with him to see what he's is like in person and have a good time with him. If you feel a connection in person maybe you should give him a chance.
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