Def : straight
SO i'm turnin 19 now, and i can't help but wonder if theirs somethin wrong with me, i admitt , i'm the most insecure guy when it comes to girls looks and for some reason i have high expectations when it comes to girls. I honestly do not know wat to do with my self anymore. I feel that on the outsitde i'm a really superficial person who is very friendly and popular (in the runnin for personality of the year in high school) not to brag just sayin i dont have trouble interactin wit people
For some reason i don't understant their were a lot of good looking girls that tell me that i'm attractive but its only the ones i'm not really into that come and tell me they like me. I mean if so many girls tell me that would it just to be nice … I honestly don't know anymore
I mean if pretty girls tell me stuff like that and stare at me or flirt at me doesn't it mean their should possibley a romantic potential…
I look back at my life and theirs been at literally at least 10 girls wanted to gout with me but most of them i didn't find attractive. I'm not bragging that i'm good looking its just that a lott of girls have told me so, I wish they had not seriously.
This is really becoming a problem for me and it gets me really depressed... ( I am bi polar)and affecting many ohter areas of my life , school, work withdrawn from friends. But this is probally due to the bi polarity because sometimes I'm in an extremely good mood.
I go out to clubs a lot and for some reason I'm able to hookup wit girls that i'm interested in their. Am i right to be so picky or should i just date the next girl that comes around. Now that im out of high school i've tried to change my perspective on things and date most girls and be less superficial but even when i try to give a girl i find average a chance i just cant get myself to be interested in her. Over the past year i've started to go on dates with pretty girls but i usually end up being really clingly and it doesnt work out after like the 3rd date.
Kaitlyn
I would date the next girl that has a great personality. If you don't care about that. Then you probably will be single for the rest of your life. There is no such thing as love at first sight. Maybe you should see physiologist and he will too tell you there is no such thing.
sun-shine
First, I think you should lower your expectations just a little bit. Being too picky for girls means you'll never find a perfect one. If you see towards the positive side of her personality, you'll find relationships a lot easier, rather than looking for a perfect girl and being picky about others' appearances and personalities. You also want to make sure she's a decent girl, on the other hand, because you don't want a girlfriend that's flat out terrible. If you do find a decent date, give her room. Don't get too attached to someone, making her feel uncomfortable. However, don't ignore her either. Talk with her often, but don't talk too deep about the relationship until both of you are ready to move on. I don't know if this helps or not, because your preferences may be different from mine, but I hope it helps you realize that there is another side to relationships than just hooking up at clubs.
jessica
hey well for one u being picky is not a problem thats good that u are pickiy in wat lady ur choosing because theirs many girls out there that play too many mind games with men and it sukcks i hate girls like thatand u going to nightclubs if u think ur going to find ur love one their well ur wrong the girls that usually go to clubs just want a one night stand with a guy thats all it suks to say that but its true and they use the guys to buy them drinks all the time
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