Should I feel guilty?Ok me and my boyfriend have been goin gout for 4 whole months and i love him. but before i did there was nother guy for several years who'd i loved and the he broke up with me. we were never really together but i loved him like we were. while in my current relationship i was having doubts as to if i had made the right desion to take a new route or to stay with the old guy so i kissed him and felt nothing. I hadnt actually loved him. Mean while my present boyfriend was perfect to me and would never hurt me or do anything. I needed to find out if me and the other guy still had a connection and we had'nt. Due to those many years of trying to recover from my heart being broken i had only cryed once and promised id never do it again. he hurt me and ive been scared that my present boyfriend is going to do the same thing. Just recently he "heard" that i kissed my old boyfriend and broke up with me and he was hearing that i was talking behind his back which i definately didn't. he promised he would'nt break my heart but he did and now im even more scared. I know he loves me but im more hesitant as to if he wants to say with me more than i am guilty for kissing the other man. We didnt really even kiss he wanted to a second time but i told him no and that i couldnt do it to my present boyfriend. I am with the present guy right now but i still feel horrible for having to lie. im not ging to tell him i did cause i only did it for him and would never do it again ever so should i just keep it at that or what do you suggest? I dont think about it when im kissing this current guy and he makes me so happy so should i just forget it? Because i had to do it because if i didnt id still be torn between them and that would hurt him worse.
mina1213
first of all dont say that you did it for him and second of all i kinda do think you should feel guilty cuz if u really didnt want to do u wouldnt have u didnt trust ur feelings for him enuff not to go and kiss someone else so he has a right to be mad and u have a right to feel guilty
Drinen
First off. YOU need to tell him, not everyone else. He's probably hurt/pissed off cuz he heard it from everyone else before you that you kissed someone. His trust for you, literally jumped out of the car as it was going down the road. You need to tell him yourself. EXPLAIN the instance to him, no summaries, the whole thing with details. and tell him how he makes you feel. Reassurance is always good. If he really likes you back, then he'll accept what was going on and will forgive you. It may be rough though to regain his trust and save the relationship you had, but if you put in an attempt, and he does like you, then it should go the way its meant to go.
And also...dont kiss another guy while you are dating someone else. Not a smart idea on any level of reasons.
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